If I see a friend, particularly after this lockdown is over, I may think a pile of things. They may appear cast down, sad: the burdens that many businessmen have with no income for five weeks is huge. (We organized pizza last night because Kea wanted something nice and we want to support good people, and the relief in the staff when we did our phone order was palpable). He may have gained weight: he may have had surgery or an injury. But he is still my mate, and I don’t need to ask who he is.
I can tell some friends without reading the address from the first sentence of the email.
The disciples had been with Jesus for three years. Most days if not daily. If they knew it was the Lord, then it was the Lord.
21 After this Jesus revealed himself again to the disciples by the Sea of Tiberias, and he revealed himself in this way. 2 Simon Peter, Thomas (called the Twin), Nathanael of Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two others of his disciples were together. 3 Simon Peter said to them, “I am going fishing.” They said to him, “We will go with you.” They went out and got into the boat, but that night they caught nothing.
4 Just as day was breaking, Jesus stood on the shore; yet the disciples did not know that it was Jesus. 5 Jesus said to them, “Children, do you have any fish?” They answered him, “No.” 6 He said to them, “Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.” So they cast it, and now they were not able to haul it in, because of the quantity of fish. 7 That disciple whom Jesus loved therefore said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his outer garment, for he was stripped for work, and threw himself into the sea. 8 The other disciples came in the boat, dragging the net full of fish, for they were not far from the land, but about a hundred yards off.
9 When they got out on land, they saw a charcoal fire in place, with fish laid out on it, and bread. 10 Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish that you have just caught.” 11 So Simon Peter went aboard and hauled the net ashore, full of large fish, 153 of them. And although there were so many, the net was not torn. 12 Jesus said to them, “Come and have breakfast.” Now none of the disciples dared ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Jesus came and took the bread and gave it to them, and so with the fish. 14 This was now the third time that Jesus was revealed to the disciples after he was raised from the dead.
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Note that the disciples had returned to what they knew: they had been told to go to Galilee, and when there they had to make a living. So they fished: most of them had been professional fishermen before Christ called them. At that time he told them to cast their nets on the other side. And this time he did the same thing.
Those who query, and do not accept the witness of the disciples, have never known someone and found them again. When you find them, you know.